Quotes from boundaries in dating Free dating sex greece

You cannot work your way up from booty call to girlfriend.

Likewise, if your relationship is all about the sex and you want more than this, opt out.

You have more self respect than this and you don’t need to be the equivalent of a used car salesman forcing yourself on someone. I will not play Florence Nightingale because it is not my job to fix/heal/help the Walking Wounded, which means no partners with substance dependency/abuse and no partners that have issues that prevent them from healthily engaging in a relationship. Let them sort out their own problems and don’t hide behind theirs.

Always acknowledge the red flag that is a dependency on something or emotional/behavioural issues that prevent a healthy relationship.

Watch how quickly their personality switches or they disappear when they’re expected to deliver.

When a man is interested, you are in no doubt about their interest and they don’t run the risk of losing you.

You have to stop acting like every guy could be the one and like there’s a fire – there isn’t.

If they lie to you and let you they’re single, abort mission.

I should also remind about ‘lender awareness’ – do not allow yourself to be in a situation where you are sharing your man, whether it’s because you turn a blind eye to his cheating, or you keep letting him break up with you and then take him back once he’s got her/them out of his skin…which brings me neatly to… I will not spend my time waiting around, whether it’s for their calls, or for them to show up after they’ve disappeared, waiting for them to come back, waiting for them to turn into The Man I Think He Could/Should Be, or waiting for them to decide if they want to be with me – I’m not putting my life on hold for anyone.

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